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Sexual Energy: Is Denial Desirable?
June 20, 2004
Namaste. This is Lakshmi. It is important on the spiritual
path to have balance.
There are many who believe to be spiritual means denial.
This is one for the worst things you can do for your
development. I am not writing of choices one makes such as
not to eat meat, but of denial, denial of sexual energy,
denial of joy and fun, denial of enjoyment of life. Life
was meant to be happy. However, humanity with its
conditioning and various belief systems from the past, have
created the realization that life should not be happy. That
to be spiritual, one should be serious and conservative.
This is not true. Yet, it is not correct to go the other
way either, and to have too much of these things, so there
is no time for meditation, contemplation, or spiritual
study.
The word spiritual has such confusion in the world today.
To be spiritual means to be happy with life, to be one with
God, to care for humanity, to let each soul live their own
life, to walk away from conflict and war, to give nothing
any energy, and most of all, to be true to one's own Higher
Self. That is the true meaning of being spiritual. Denial
does not come into those beliefs.
When one denies, the Self wants it even more, this then
sets up a battle within oneself, which is often hard to
fight. Sexual energy is a very powerful energy, and all
energy has to move, as does sexual energy. It is a living
force, just as the wind, the rain, and the elements. When
it is roused it must go somewhere. When it is not used, it
becomes a rage inside, which must come out, and it often
does in a less than pleasant way. It is the reason Catholic
priests have experienced so many problems. One cannot stem
sexual energy. If one cannot get it through one way, one
will get it through another.
I am often asked what I feel about the Catholic Church and
this problem? I have no thoughts on this, it happens
because priests do not allow the correct use of energy.
There is nothing wrong either in releasing this energy
oneself. If this can be done, it can be a wonderful release
for stress and pent up emotions, not to say some pleasure
while it is happening. Denial of this energy can create an
imbalance in one's life. It is the same with having fun,
enjoyment, etc. So many on the Earth plane are so serious,
many have forgotten how to laugh, how to have fun, how to
enjoy life. One can say "but I do not have the money or the
time to enjoy life".
I say to those people, you are the creator of your own
life, you can do anything. All it needs is for you to let
go. Look as to why you work as much as you do, and then
address this problem. It can be done. It may not happen
overnight or quickly, but slowly if you change the
situation, it will change in Earth time.
The length of your life can change once you begin to enjoy
life, and take time out for fun and laughter and enjoyment.
Denial is a belief which comes from the belief of others,
from their own hang-ups and suppressions, their own fears
and beliefs. One cannot have balance with denial.
Begin to enjoy life, but also to take some time to sit
quiet and allow us to communicate with you. Do you know
that the greatest union with God, is in love and with the
sexual energy when used in the correct way? This is true.
In doing so, one can release all that is built up within
oneself, the tension. Once it is released, then one can be
happier. There is nothing worse for us than to work with a
tense individual. There is much more I would like to write
about this subject and I will do so, as I did with prayer,
in a number of communications. For now, please contemplate
on my words.
Lakshmi
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